The nature of any relationship is a placing in dynamic tension, shall we say, of two different points of view that have enough points of agreement in common that there is the attraction, one to the other, for the purpose of further illumination of that which is mysterious.
Wow, these 2 videos came up in my related videos tonight on YouTube and in hindsight… they have extremely good advice that I wish I had known before my dark night :)
We can list all the ways we can “fix them” but that’s “other person awareness”. Go find ‘your’ pain, nurture it and learn from it – take responsibility for seeking to understand yourself.
The person – and we mean this in the nicest possible way – is irrelevant. You’re just using them as your excuse to lineup or not lineup.
I love synchronicity – a couple of days ago I decided to re-address the possibility that we are living in a virtual reality as simulations, and then I went to the library and got some books… and this one ended up being everything I was thinking about and have discussed in the past. This happens so often.. what we are needing / thinking about – we attract. I knew that this book would be based on beliefs, I didn’t know it would go into virtual realities and simulations. :)
Dream Exploring – got to see a pattern of “abandonment” issues repeating in relationships I’ve never seen before. Driving to Vietnamese breakfast.
Reading a book that the whole world should read. Vlog & Book notes about The Soul of Money
We are approaching a period of time when relationships are ready to go through a major redesign. The current paradigm isn’t working. People are unsatisfied in love; people don’t know how to make relationships work.
Accept what is happening as part of life. Choose to allow it to help transform you into a better you. Don’t judge it in a negative way – see all of it as serving your life in some way, as cycles of expansion.
Questioning the I Ching about Karma
